If your intentions are good, that is, if what you desire in life benefits not only you but those around you, it is in the best interest of those around you to help you get what you want. Life supports life. Thriving is built into our DNA. Mother Nature may not care and could toss you curveballs, but people around you will experience success if you experience success. Therefore, don’t let yourself play small. Your desires, by the way, are never just your own. They are a function of you and a function of society’s wishes for you. So let others help and support you in chasing your dreams. That is the opposite of selfish. That is the opposite of greedy. That’s living.