Psychology
ORAL
Personality Makeup |
Physical & Energetic System |
Interpersonal Relations |
| ARREST OF DEVELOPMENT: Babyhood Feeding | PHYSICAL BUILD: Thin, Collapsed Chest |
EVOKES: Mothering |
| TRAUMA: Abandonment | BODY TENSION: Flaccid, Smooth Muscles, Hold | COUNTER TRANSFERENCE REACTION: Passivity, Neediness, Dependency |
| PATTERN: Hold On | BODY CIRCULATION: Cold Chest | COMMUNICATES IN: Questions |
| SEXUALITY: Sex for Closeness & Contact | ENERGY LEVELS: Hypoactive, Low Energy | LANGUAGE: Indirect |
| FAULT: Greed | ENERGY LOCATION: In the Head, Generally Depleted | DOUBLE BIND: "If I ask, it's not love; if I don't ask, I won't get it." |
| DEMANDS THE RIGHT TO: Be Nurtured & Fulfilled | PRIMARY FUNCTIONING CHAKRAS: 7th, 6th Front, 2nd Front Aspect | MASK STATEMENT: "I don't need you." "I won't ask." |
| PRESENTING COMPLAINT: Passivity (Fatigue) | PSYCHODYNAMICS OF OPEN CHAKRAS: Spiritual, Mental, Love | LOWER SELF STATEMENT: "Take care of me." |
| NEGATIVE INTENT: "I'll make you give it." "I won't need." | ENERGETIC DEFENSE SYSTEM: Oral Sucking, Verbal Denial, Hysteria | HIGHER SELF STATEMENT: "I'm satisfied, fulfilled." |
| DEVICES BEHIND NEGATIVE INTENT: Need vs. Abandonment | ||
| NEEDS TO: Own Needs & Stand on Own Two Feet |
Summary:
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The trauma for this person is abandonment, by loss of mother through death, illness, or withdrawl. The mother gave, but not enough, or she "pretended" to give, or gave in spite of herself.
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The child compensated by becoming independent too early, many times walking & talking early. The child is therefore confused about receptivity and is afraid to ask for things for fear it will not be given. Underneath this, the need to be taken care of results in dependency, clingyness, grabbiness, and decreased aggressiveness. Under stress, the independent front collapses, and this person is spitefully passive and greedy. They are basically deprived, feels empty & hollow and doesn't want to take responsibility. They are not able to be alone.
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Body tendencies: Body is underdeveloped, with long, thin, flaccid muscles, and slumps in weakness. They do not look adult & mature. They have a cold, depressed chest and shallow breathing, and their eyes may suck your energy. Sex is used for closeness & contact.
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This person needs to trust in the abundance of the universe and stop grabbing. They need to start GIVING. They need to stop playing the victim and acknowledge what they DO get. They need to face their fear of being alone, explore the void within and find it teeming with life. Owning his/her own needs and standing on his/her own two feet. Inside, this person is like a fine musical instrument. He needs to finely tune his instrument and compose his own symphony. When he plays his unique melody in the symphony of life, he will be fulfilled. They are natural teachers, being interested in so many things. They can use their intelligence in creative work in the arts or sciences.
From Hands of Light: A Guide to Healing Through the Human Energy Field